i have a problem and need help ...

i've sold a timebomb ... now the buyer claims the watch is for women, because it's to small for his wrist ...

for me:

- timebomb = male
- icon = female (timebomb)

or i'm wrong?

That's how they were sold on O.com
http://www.oakley.com/products/1283/

thanks, but i see no hint of male or female ...

Just here :

Well, you can also find the Icon under Men's store, so it is not really consistent.
Anyway, the guy just want to screw you. If he's not pleased with the watch, ask him to return it to you and then refund him.

The Icon was the same size at the time bomb, just without the 'fins' around the face. The Icon Small was geared towards women, but really there were only a couple colorways that were female specific. My brother wears a Ti/White Icon Small, just because it fits better.